Life and work

Chest harness done by Aley Cat

Life has been quite a fickle as of late. It is one reason why I haven’t done anything as of late. Life has thrown me from babysitting two children to now three children, it has me working a few side jobs like Doordash and Onlyfans. I’ve had two relationships in the past year that didn’t work out. One said it was mental health, later on found out he only though of it as a thing (pet/owner relationship) instead of a real relationship. The other was on the road as a truck driver and couldn’t handle with him on the road. Now, I have a wonderful boyfriend that supports my actual job of babysitting as well as supports my side jobs. I also have a wonderful girlfriend who is also willing to help out with my Onlyfans. A funny thing is, I wasn’t looking for a relationship when I met my boyfriend. I was looking for a guy for my girlfriend, she wasn’t interested in the guy I had seen, so I went for it, and now we’ve been together for almost 5 months. But hey, like some say, you have to stop looking to find happiness.

I’ve also started up a new hobby. I’ve been intrested in the art of shibari (the art of rope tying). I’ve been tied up and had photoshoots few times, and then during a shibari munch (gathering/hangout), a friend had bought me my first rope (sadly it is 27 feet and not the usual 30 to 35 feet). Due to my rope being short, there are only a few things that I can do with it. I am hoping to buy more rope (proper length) so I’m able to do more with it. It’s a little odd, at first I only wanted to be tied up and be a model/practice rope bunny, but now that I have rope, I want to be a rigger (person who does the tying) for some people. I’ve been able to do the Futo (aka Futomomo), a little bit of the Cow Hitch, the Bowline, and since I know how to do the Futo I can do the Booty Basket. It’s all very interesting and I can’t wait till I get the proper length rope to do them all.

Overall, life has been alright. I just need to keep my head up, have a good support system, and have love around me. I do hope to share my journey of shibari, doordash, and Onlyfans with you all. Thank you again for being here for me and I apologize for how long it’s been since I last had something to say.

Published by kathleenchester1

Mother to a 6 year old boy, college student, babysitter, lover to writing and reading.

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